28 weeks doctor appointment

I have gained 13 pounds. My belly measures at 28 weeks. And we set the c-section date of 9.20.09.

Have I really officially decided I want to have a c-section instead of a VBAC? no.

#1 reason to have c-section: hubby says he doesn't want to raise 2 children on his own.
my rebuttal: there are 70% of women having successful VBAC's. and around 1% of complications of VBACs result in dealth of the mother or fetus.

and can I just say... I really don't want to die either. or is that just a given?